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	<title>Comments on: The Gift of Conversation</title>
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	<description>Amy Gahran's news and musings on how we communicate in the online age.</description>
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		<title>By: Toby</title>
		<link>http://www.contentious.com/2005/06/27/the-gift-of-conversation/#comment-23601</link>
		<dc:creator>Toby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Jul 2005 00:05:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amy - a most creative and thoughtful gift. Did you consider taping the conversation?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amy - a most creative and thoughtful gift. Did you consider taping the conversation?</p>
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		<title>By: Bob Meade</title>
		<link>http://www.contentious.com/2005/06/27/the-gift-of-conversation/#comment-23493</link>
		<dc:creator>Bob Meade</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Jun 2005 03:13:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amy, that's a great idea.  I've picked up lots of useful hints from your blog, but a gift idea that's sure to be a winner with my wife is pure gold.  Now,....who can I call???    - Thanks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amy, that&#8217;s a great idea.  I&#8217;ve picked up lots of useful hints from your blog, but a gift idea that&#8217;s sure to be a winner with my wife is pure gold.  Now,&#8230;.who can I call???    - Thanks.</p>
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		<title>By: yet another f*$#&#38;@! learning experience</title>
		<link>http://www.contentious.com/2005/06/27/the-gift-of-conversation/#comment-23475</link>
		<dc:creator>yet another f*$#&#38;@! learning experience</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jun 2005 22:28:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;trackback /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The Gift of Conversation&lt;/strong&gt;
Amy Gahran describes a truly priceless gift she got he husband for his birthday: a conversation with one of his favorite authors. What a brilliant idea.
 
She describes her strategy in detail and encourages you to try it out.  I'd imagine it would a...</description>
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Amy Gahran describes a truly priceless gift she got he husband for his birthday: a conversation with one of his favorite authors. What a brilliant idea.</p>
<p>She describes her strategy in detail and encourages you to try it out.  I&#8217;d imagine it would a&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Amy Gahran</title>
		<link>http://www.contentious.com/2005/06/27/the-gift-of-conversation/#comment-23381</link>
		<dc:creator>Amy Gahran</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jun 2005 18:35:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ken asked about broaching the fee topic. In this case, I simply mentioned that I would be willing to pay this author for his time. No point in getting into numbers right off the bat.

In this case, the author responded that he wouldn't dream of charging for this -- which was very generous. However, had he wished to charge I would have left it up to him to name a number. If that number wasn't in my ballpark, I would have negotiated.

Nick asked how I got this idea. I don't know, it just popped into my head. My head is weird that way. If other people benefit from this idea, that's cool.

- Amy Gahran</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ken asked about broaching the fee topic. In this case, I simply mentioned that I would be willing to pay this author for his time. No point in getting into numbers right off the bat.</p>
<p>In this case, the author responded that he wouldn&#8217;t dream of charging for this &#8212; which was very generous. However, had he wished to charge I would have left it up to him to name a number. If that number wasn&#8217;t in my ballpark, I would have negotiated.</p>
<p>Nick asked how I got this idea. I don&#8217;t know, it just popped into my head. My head is weird that way. If other people benefit from this idea, that&#8217;s cool.</p>
<p>- Amy Gahran</p>
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		<title>By: Nick</title>
		<link>http://www.contentious.com/2005/06/27/the-gift-of-conversation/#comment-23379</link>
		<dc:creator>Nick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jun 2005 17:43:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a truly beautiful idea. Can you say anyhting about how it came to you, how it evolved?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a truly beautiful idea. Can you say anyhting about how it came to you, how it evolved?</p>
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		<title>By: ken</title>
		<link>http://www.contentious.com/2005/06/27/the-gift-of-conversation/#comment-23378</link>
		<dc:creator>ken</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jun 2005 17:25:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very cool gift. Could you discuss the fee a bit? How did you ask about that? How do you know how much to offer?</description>
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